What is meant by “anything is everything”?
It may have different meanings and different
interpretations to different individuals.
First of all, human perceptions are subjective and
individualized: they are affected not only by the five senses, but also by the
unique experiences of an individual, as well as by the indelible memories of
those experiences retained in the mind of that individual. Therefore, what is
important to you may not be as
important to others, and vice-versa.
For this reason, anything could be everything to you, but not to others.
An illustration
Near the end of 2016, a road rage occurred in Arkansas that ended in
the tragic death of a 3-year-old child.
A
woman, with her 3-year-old grandson sitting at the back of her car, stopped at
a stop sign. A man in the car right behind honked her for not starting her car
immediately, but the woman honked back; thus the road rage began with the man
firing a gun shot at the back of the woman’s car.
Stopping
too long at a stop sign, or wanting to get to a place on time might be everything to the man. Having the right
to remain where she was might also be everything
to the woman, so she naturally honked back.
Unfortunately, that anything-is-everything incident ended
in tragedy—the death of the woman’s three-year-old grandson being shot dead
while sitting at the back of her car.
In real life, anything
could be everything to real people—it
all depends on their respective perspectives of anything is everything.
Another
illustration
In 2012, a Chinese couple from Hong Kong filed a lawsuit
against an education consultant in the United States for $2 million dollars,
who promised that he could—but ultimately did not—get their two sons into
Harvard University.
The couple had used “improper” but maybe still perfectly
“legal” means to get their two sons into Harvard University .
Getting into an elite college or university may be everything to many students, including
their parents. Some might even resort to doing anything in order to achieve that goal, which is everything to them.
A pastor from Hong Kong was invited to give a sermon in China . A woman
from the congregation asked the pastor if it was “right” to give money to get
her son into an elite school in China .
The pastor replied by saying: “Your son getting into that elite school would
also imply depriving another child of that same opportunity you are seeking for
your child.”
A year later, the pastor met the same woman, who told him
that her son had got into that elite school but without using her kwganxi or connection. The pastor then said
to her: “See, God is in control; if you would just let Him.”
Now, what is your
own take on “anything is everything”?
Stephen Lau
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